February Tip 2:
Network When You Aren't Looking for Anything
I know you are sick of hearing about networking as an important career development and job search strategy. Like it or not, networking can be a positive factor in managing your career. But, you hate networking. You find it awkward, uncomfortable and you think you aren't good at it. I would argue that its timing, and the way you go about, the way you think about networking that can make or break your success at networking. Start by doing it when and where the stakes are low. Ideally when you aren't looking for anything. Ideally when you are in a confident, stable place in your life and career. Do it when you are in a good position to add value for someone else. Be open to helping others. If you do this consistently throughout your career, Then, if and when you are in transition, and looking for something, you are in a much better position to tap into the contacts and connections you have made through your various networking events and activities and ask for help. It takes time, but be selective and pick events, associations and organizations that are likely to bring new ideas, energy and possibly skills enhancement while you are simultaneously meeting and cultivating new connections. Here's a couple of resources to source events, groups and associations in your area. They are sortable by geography and other filters to match up with your interests:
https://www.eventbrite.com/
https://www.uschamber.com/members/chambers